First Date Do’s and Don’ts: How to Make a Small Effort, But Leave a Big Impact!

30 June 2025 By Rachel
Real talk, EyeMates! Pasti banyak dari kalian yang lagi struggle sama First Date, dan bingung karena cuma mentok disitu-situ aja? Tenang gurliess, EyeMin got your back!. Let’s get into the do’s and don’t, plus how to let your eyes talk louder than your fit.

DO’S — Gotta Have That Soft But Main Character Aura


1. Softlens On, Chaos Controlled:

Your eyes = your ultimate cupid’s arrow! Pake apapun Bloominc Series dari EYESIGHT buat upgrade tatapan dari “cute” ke “wait who is she?!”. Warna-warnanya calm, dan bantu emphasize mata kamu, pas banget buat look yang natural tapi tetap kasih strong impression.

2. Makeup Tip: Low Effort, High Impact.

Go for that clean girl, soft flush, lip tint, little highlighter di inner corner dan browbone. Yang penting glowing + gak meleleh. Don’t forget setting spray. We don’t cry, but if we did—makeup stays.

3. Attitude: Chill, Tapi Kasih Spark.

Jangan terlalu scripted, jangan juga terlalu passive. Ngobrol tuh kayak rally, bukan monolog. Unlock the bond, then you’ll catch some vibes that makes them looking forward to see you ASAP again. 

4. Fit Check: Don’t go too much, but go “enchanting”.

Outfit kamu harus ada di kesan kayak “dia pasti langsung suka” and “aku nyaman kok pakai ini.” Literally it could be anything that you like and screaming “you”. Statement pieces like earrings or other accessories might help a lot. 


DON’TS — Pls Don’t Be The Walking Red Flag 


1. Too Much Makeup = Giving Pick Me Goth 2010

You don’t wanna be melting at 5PM. Stay cute, breathable, and let your EYESIGHT lenses do the drama. Gak perlu 5 warna eyeshadow buat impress doi. Tatapan kamu aja udah cukup.

2. Stop Oversharing Soal Mantan!

GIRL STOP. First date bukan podcast. Apalagi topic soal orang yang pernah sama kamu dulu, inget it’s a new date! Not “temen curhat”

3. No Ipad Kids Behaviour Allowed 

Checking your phone tiap 2 menit? It’s giving zero interest. Put the phone away (kecuali dia boring ya, then fake emergency call, EyeMin won’t tell).

4. Don’t Be “Someone Different” 

No need to fake hobbies or opinions. Cukup jadi diri kamu sendiri udah powerful kok, apalagi kalau udah pake EYESIGHT, tatapan kamu auto bikin dia falling at the first sight. 

Intinya EyeMates, first date tuh bukan buat flex siapa paling effort, tapi siapa paling vibe. Your look is matter, tapi yang lebih penting adalah your real energy towards your date ya. Less “I’m nervous” more “I’m the plot twist.” If softlens makes you more confidence, just go with it!